Learning to understand how we communicate best and allowing others to understand this too is the first step in allowing ourselves the grace of both being human and attracting the right people into our lives so that we constantly evolve and grow with ease and grace.
If communication has not been something that you were taught to see as as a positive thing, learning a way that allows you to feel safe and heard is vital but it is also one of the most difficult lessons to learn. Once you learn it however your ability to connect with the right people at the right time will never look back again.
Everything is about baby steps and knowing you have a right to be heard as well as to listen enables you to learn to communicate with the right people at the right time from a place of peace not fear.
Ever since the act of communication exists people are trying to become better and better at it. In the past we used to understand each other with body language, further in time languages developed, and now we got to the point where technology-based communication took over. But thousands of centuries have passed and people still haven’t found the way to get along with each other. One of the reasons for this is that our behaviors pretty often tend to be confusing which can result is nerve-racking arguments or losing friends. People are different and there is no way for everyone to get along with everyone else. But sometimes we act in a wicked manner without even realizing it, or the consequences of it which can easily drift people away from us.
Our communication skills are vital but that is not to say we should communicate in the same way as everyone else afterall we are all unique. For some it is simply a question of accessing the facts and letting other know about them, for others it is about processing the information, understanding how we feel about it and then allowing ourselves the time to respond in a way that resonates with us. For the comedian it will be instant and humorous but for those that are empaths it will be thought out and processed and for those that are in the now it may be instant and reactive.
There is no wrong way simply an understanding and an acceptance that we are all different and therefore how we react to what happens will lead us down paths that are right for us.
The avoidance of communication however is the root to ‘getting stuck’ and it is not until we are tired of being stuck that we find the courage to seek a new path but when we do we find the right people are walking alongside us all of the way.