As I drove today I was thinking about how sometimes no matter what we do people will misunderstand our intentions and choose to see a side of us that they want to see even if in reality it’s not actually there …it’s simply that where they are themselves in life what they see life in some way reflects back to them …it’s just as when we set our intention each day to see the good in life often it’s reflected back to us and no matter what is going on in our lives there not every day may be good, there is always something good in every day. It’s all about what we seek.
I used to be someone who wanted everyone else to be happy to the point I would only reflect back to them what they wanted to see in spite of what they were doing and no matter how their actions affected me…I learnt at great cost that it did not serve them in life and it was not serving me in my wellbeing…I had to learn to get comfortable in reflecting back what others needed as well as choosing to respond not react to what they did and said.
They say if your presence is not felt your words will never be truly heard either and therefore we are always wise to seek to be good at what we do and trust that when we are no matter where we are in our lives those that matter won’t mind and those that mind will cease to matter.
Your wellbeing requires you to choose a perception that serves you well and to notice who truly sees you and who never will.
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