Guilt and shame are the biggest triggers of ‘dis-ease’ that we see today and yet it’s a label mothers seem to take on almost as soon as a baby is born.
There is a reason why parenting does not come with a manual … its because there is no right or wrong way, only the right way for you. We are always doing the best we can with the information we have at the time … Trusting that it is only when we know better, that we can do better, sets us free to get on with the ‘job’. It then becomes a choice of letting go of the fear of getting it wrong or always living from a place of ‘guilt’ . It’s a muscle and our perception of life will always affect this.
Trusting your instinct and knowing that loving them where they are is always the biggest opportunity for you both to learn and grow is what being a mummy is all about.
Our children are always our greatest teachers if we are willing to listen and hear.
It’s also about being kind to you at every opportunity because both of your wellbeing depends on it !
