It’s amazing how many people feed off the ‘problems’ of others and how gossip is something that enables others to feel better about themselves and how their own lives are working. It’s also amazing how people can avoid someone having a bad time because their ‘bad luck’ might be contagious and fear stops them from…

When I handed my notice in at my then ‘high powered’ job the first thing I did was go and buy a pair of ‘Todd’ bright red loafers. At the time it was what Princess Dianna was wearing ,they were a must have in ‘fashion’ and they were a sure sign of ‘success’. My justification…

They say the only thing in life is uncertainty and the only guarantees we have in life are that we are born and we will die, what goes on in between is largely up to us. life has a habit however of getting in the way as does our heritage and our belief system …and…

We are always in control of our thoughts we just like to think that they control us because that gives us the liberty of allowing life to work to us not to us … self responsibility was never going to be something humans took well because society profits on us living in fear not from…

Respect is something far too many expect but never do themselves ….instead they run on fear of not being enough and life reflects it back perfectly. I was talking to someone this week about our ability to lose ourselves in our fear of making others uncomfortable. Sometimes it feels easier if we don’t allow someone…

As I drove today I was thinking about how sometimes no matter what we do people will misunderstand our intentions and choose to see a side of us that they want to see even if in reality it’s not actually there …it’s simply that where they are themselves in life what they see life in…