Friday 3rd December
You often hear people say things like a leopard cannot change his spots or you cant change the past but you can change the future. All of which we all say time and time again and dont question much. But have you ever thought about what those phrases are really saying?? I agree that you cannot change your past but in order for you to change the future you have to understand the past and you cannot just push it under the carpet to move on. A leopard however can change his spots providing he understands why he had the spots in the first place and how he got them. Our childhood has a very important impact on our adulthood and if we pretend it does not then we cannot change our spots. However if we stop a while and question without blaming how we got to where we are we can make the concious decision to change our future. None of this is science based and you do not need to go and sit on a councellors chair for hours on end to make sense of this you just need to make sense of it yourself in your way.. the most important thing is a clear intention and a level of understanding. The rest if you excuse the final pun will take care of itself….
