We all have many theory’s in life and I am no different to anyone else. Most of mine evolve around our health and wellbeing as this is my passion, as is why our emotions affect our health. Every time I push the boundaries of my theory’s they prove me right and wrong always and I guess that is what we call learning and evolving. I pushed them hard the last few weeks and I crashed and burned this weekend with swollen glands, a chest that felt like it was caving in and a sinusitis to top it all up. It is slowly clearing but it has taken a deep level of understanding to processes and let go, in addition to letting my body rest for a while. I am lucky in that I timed it all perfectly and am away from the hum drum of my daily world right now.
One of my theory’s is the affect others have on us and particularly the parent child bond and no matter which way I look at it my theory’s come up trumps even when I don’t want them to. So in short people can make you ill. They can also make you well and on top of that they can make you thrive. The only thing you have to figure out is which ones do which to you and how you are going to deal with it. I now know what and who and how to manage it, I also know what people I am drawn to and why. I also know which people to turn to when I want to achieve something or when I want to cruise in their waves but most importantly I know how to ride my own wave and enjoy its ride. I have learnt so much from watching my own children and seeing them thrive and fall in the wake of others around them including me and I am incredibly grateful for having them in my lives to learn and grow from. I am however acutely aware that as they grow into their own people I need to grow into my own person more so that I don’t become the wilting weed in their lives and instead the star in the sky for them to follow and trust. We are all given seeds to grow in our gardens it is just a question of whether we choose to nurture them to flourish and thrive or we allow them to become weeds and vines. You don’t have to have children to watch this evolve in your lives as it starts as soon as you choose to consciously see it.
