Sometimes people come into our lives to test us on what step to take next and often we get distracted whilst we get caught up in their dreams and for whatever reason they have decided we are part of their next step. Sometimes these people are sent to us to test our own resolve and sometimes they are indeed sent to help us on our way but how do we know the difference. The truth is we don’t we just have to listen and hear and make sure we are awake. Remember tho it is rare that the person you help will help you too, they will simply open the door for you to find your own help. Rowing your own boat and knowing where you are heading is key to you making the right decisions at the right time and if you are like some of us here, totally open to losing control and trusting your instinct this will sometimes be over whelming and confusing. Trust however that whatever the outcome you will have helped others get the step up they needed and your path will now remain smooth. Come from the heart, be aware there are some out there with less well balanced intentions than you but don’t let this cloud your true self and know that your doors will open at just the right time. And most importantly remember rowing your own boat is great when there are other boats alongside you

