There was a 90 year old on the radio this morning who’s life was truly in multi colour and how they touched others lives bought a tear to your eyes. She was more alive than many of those just starting their adventure on this planet. I was reminded of two influencers finding the pressure of these squares taking the toll on their emotional wellbeing and needing time out … it’s a fine line to tread and a reminder of how these squares is not real life for many it’s escapism and whilst can be incredibly beneficial to our lives it can equally be detrimental if our mindset is set to the dial of constantly not being enough or we are co-dependant on feeling others stuff so we don’t have to feel our own and with this we can avoid the most important work of all …our own lives and our own wellbeing.
They were talking on the radio this morning about counting the days down to something exciting happening in our lives and it reminded me of how easy it is to avoid the now especially when our now does not look and feel exactly what our mind tells us it should do.
Love island is of course back on, it’s as addictive as it’s fascinating, last night one of the guys told a girl to just be herself and not get involved in the drama of two men trying to win her, it’s shocking how the ego kicks in and the mind tricks us into thinking we have to be a certain way to be loved. Our perception of course relative to where we are in our lives and being in the spotlight will exaggerate our normally hidden insecurities.
They say we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most of our time with, most people assume this is a financial average but like everything money is just energy and when our energy is aligned with our own truth we find trust and synchronicity are our partners in crime not fear and resistance. Make sure your gut,brain connection is strong and you are making good choices for you because our legacy is more about how we make others feel as opposed to what we amass within it and when we are enough for ourselves life responds accordingly and we live life as only we can well and naturally.
